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Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  .This section is about psychology of sexuality.  ---  1/24/2006


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  (1) Causes of like/lust: horniness, loneliness, boredom, miserable.  (2) Psychological states that like/lust leads you into: horny, excited, loss of reason and control, addictive behavior.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  (1) The knowledgeable and ignorant about love and sex.  (2) The experienced and naive about love and sex.  (3) They are two different things.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Aesthetic tastes in men and women, in general, specific types, and specific individuals.  Personality tastes in men and women, in general, specific types, and specific individuals.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Affects of any mental element on sex behavior.  Affects of any sex behavior on any mental element.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Arousal theory.  (1) What sexually excites people?  What gets people horny?  In general, for specific types, and for specific individuals?  How horny, how often, and why?  (A) Internal stimulation: mental.  (B) External stimulation: sights.  (C) Physical stimulation: rubbing etc.  (2) What turns people off?  How fast, and how much?  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Attraction: turn ons vs. turn offs.  How tastes develop.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Be rational and be emotional, but avoid excess or lack of either.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Desperation, deprivation, satiation, and excess.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Emotion and drive.  %like vs. %hate vs. %lust vs. %unattracted.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Emotion and like/lust.  Thought and like/lust.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Illusions about opposite sex in general, a specific opposite sex member.  Illusions about sex relationships in general, and specific relationships.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  It is best to be rational about your emotions, tough but best.  Don't repress emotions, acknowledge them and be rational.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Psychological aspects of sex.  For all mental elements: drive, memory, emotion, thought, attitude, personality.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Psychological stimuli, arousal, and  excitation.  How does physical excitation and arousal build up, mentally and physically.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Psychology and behavior.  (1) Drive: high, low.  (2) Expression: much, little.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Stimuli.  (1) Natural stimuli: hormones, uncontrolled thoughts.  (2) Manmade stimuli: (A) Self induced: reading porn, playing with self.  (B) Other induced: teasing.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Stimulus leads to excitation, which leads to behavior.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Three relationships: (1) Like - like.  (2) Like - dislike.  (3) Dislike - dislike.  How much, total and subareas, why.  ---  12/30/1992


Sociology, sexuality, psychological.  ---  Your and her philosophical views on sex and other things (metaphysics, epistemology, ethics, aesthetics).  ---  12/30/1992




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